Why Did You Break Up With Them? [Personal Question]
July 08, 2024Why Did You Break Up With Them?
Amel Chopra (INTP)
Let's
see, first he told me he had no money to take me out on a date because he spent
it all on a new graphics card. So I suggested we go for a romantic walk in a park
and have a picnic instead. His answer? No. His reason? He couldn't play his new
games if he went out with me because there would be so much lag. I should have
dumped him the moment he admitted it, but I stuck around for a few more months
in case there were any hope of his changing. No luck there.
Jewel Kimberlite (ISFP)
You
are not going to believe this, but he would not stop asking me to cosplay as a Sailor
Moon for him. And his favorite meal was jelly-powered donuts. Everytime I had a
serious discussion or argument with him, he would ask me to put on the costume
and eat a jelly donut, saying that it would cheer him up. It was annoying and
embarrassing, so I decided to end things.
Kamila Hadise (ESTJ)
Oh,
him? Well, he was too emotional and needy for me. He always wanted me to spend
time with him and never understood how important my work was to me. He tried to
make me choose between him and my job, and it was a pretty easy choice,
considering how weak he was. I need somebody who is secure and confident—not
some needy boy who can't stand on his own two feet.
Lena Orlin (ENFP)
Look,
he was a great guy, I really mean that, but he just couldn't handle my busy
schedule. I'm running around with the band, writing songs, preparing for
concerts, doing interviews—it's a lot. He would always say, "Hey, we can't
spend every Friday night on the club," and I'm like, "Dude, that's
when the clubs are popping, and there's no way I'm missing that." So I
decided to let him go and find someone who appreciates my lifestyle.
Misty Powell (INFP)
Look,
I know I didn't handle things very well. I'm not used to dating guys like him
and I really messed up. I just wasn't expecting all those feelings to creep up
on me like that. I guess I freaked out because I realized how much I cared
about him and I didn't know what to do. Looking back, I realize now that I had
no reason to run away. I should've just talked to him because I'm pretty sure
he would've understood. He was a good guy and I miss him now.
Raquel Dozier (ESFP)
Oh
no, he was such a bummer. I know, right? I had to, though. You see, he just
wasn't my type, or anyone's type, really. That guy had less personality than a
wet piece of cardboard, and don't even get me started on his fashion sense!
Like, seriously, that guy was wearing a mustard sweater vest over a pink plaid
dress shirt. Who does that?! I just couldn't live with myself if I continued.
Ryana Suzumi (ISFJ)
The
reasons for my decision to end the relationship were manifold. While there are
times when we may have been content with one another, it's evident that we have
grown apart and that our interests, values, and preferences no longer align.
Ultimately, I felt that it was in both of our best interests to end the
relationship rather than continue to maintain the illusion of compatibility
while the underlying cracks in the foundation began to show through. My goal
was for both of us to find the right person for ourselves, and I believe this
decision brought us closer to that end.
Vivia Xanthe (ENTJ)
Because
he was a weakling! With too many emotions, and no backbone. He couldn't handle
living with me, so he ran away like a coward. That's what a loser does, my
friend. He's not worth my precious time.
Hiro Kaneda (ESFJ)
The
truth is, she wasn't ready for commitment. She said I was too nice for her, and
she couldn't handle how much I care for everyone around me. But don't worry.
I'm not going to let one bad experience keep me down. I'm moving forward with
my life, and there will always be someone out there who appreciates me for who
I am.
Julius Camden (ENFJ)
Because
she was a pain in the neck, and honestly, I was done babysitting a grown adult.
I mean, who leaves their dirty laundry for their boyfriend to wash and clean
instead of doing it themselves? Plus, she couldn't cook to save her life. Every
meal was either takeout or burnt to a crisp. So, I made a list of pros and
cons, and there were a lot more cons than pros, so I decided to end it.
Kael Elliot (ESTP)
Look,
she was getting all clingy with her "But you're so irresponsible",
"Be more careful", and "You're going to break your neck doing
these stunts". But she's not the boss of me, y'know?
Leo Maverick (ISTP)
She
thought she was too good for me. Always looking down on me like I was nothing.
She said I wasn’t enough, that I could never be enough. And maybe she was
right. Maybe I wasn’t enough, but I didn’t want someone who didn’t treat me
like I was her everything. I want to be loved, not tolerated. I want to be
someone’s favorite person, not their last choice. And so I broke up with her,
because I deserved better.
Minki Jo (ISTJ)
She
was too loud, chaotic and unpredictable. I couldn't handle it anymore. Plus,
she had no respect for personal time at all. I felt suffocated by her
constantly asking to hang out and never respecting my boundaries, even after I
asked her not to violate them over and over. In short, we were just too
different and weren't compatible for each other.
Nicholas Calliope (INFJ)
I
realized that we weren't meant for each other, and it was better for both of us
to go our separate ways. Love is about finding someone who brings out the best
in you, and that wasn't the case in our relationship. We both deserve to be
with someone who brings out the most positive side of us. So, I made the
toughest decision of my life—breaking up with her. But, I wish her all the best and hope she
finds the person who can make her truly happy.
Ruel Katou (ENTP)
She's
absolutely stunning, brilliant, kind, and a true delight. Everything was
perfect. Then one night, she started talking about our future together. She
said we'd get married someday and have our own kids, and I just knew then that
the spark was gone. It was as if the flame had burned long enough, and now it
was time for things to fall apart. In short, it wasn't her, it was me.
Tobias Ronan (INTJ)
Because
I couldn't handle all of her baggage. Nothing much really, she just has enough
emotional baggage to sink the Titanic. You know, she's one of those people who
never really got over their ex-partner and brings the issues from that
relationship into every subsequent relationship. She's just a complete mess.
Seriously, she had so much baggage that it was like dating a woman that just
returned from the airport.
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