What Are 3 Negative Mindsets You Need to Let Go Of?

 

Amel Chopra (INTP)

1. The "all-or-nothing" mindset. The belief that something has to be perfect in order to be good is highly detrimental to mental health and overall success.

2. The either-or" mindset. The tendency to view the world in a binary way can create a sense of rigidity and resistance to change.

3. The "it's all my fault" mindset. The mindset that often causes self-blame and guilt and can lead to feelings of shame and inadequacy.

 

Hiro Kaneda (ESFJ)

1. I need to let go of the need to always be nice and agreeable to everyone.

2. I also need to let go of the tendency I have to seek out approval from others.

3. Lastly, I need to let go of the idea that my own needs and feelings are not important.

 

Jewel Kimberlite (ISFP)

1. Holding myself to unrealistic standards and expecting perfection.

2. Self-doubt and the inability to accept myself as I am.

3. A fixed mindset that limits my ability to learn and grow.

 

Julius Camden (ENFJ)

1. I need to let go of worrying about what other people think of me

2. I need to let go of the need for control and let life happen instead of trying to plan everything

3. I need to let go of the fear of making mistakes and embrace failure as a way to learn and grow.

 

Kael Elliot (ESTP)

1) I need to let go of my tendency to always be in survival mode and thinking everything is a life or death situation.

2) I need to stop being so critical of myself and allow myself to make mistakes without feeling like a failure.

3) I need to stop thinking about the worst possible outcome for any situation.

 

Kamila Suzette (ESTJ)

1. Thinking that I can do everything myself and refusing to ask for help or delegate things.

2. Being so focused on the end goal that I forget how to enjoy the journey.

3. Being so rigid in my thinking that I can't adapt and adjust to different situations.

 

Lena Orlin (ENFP)

1. That I'm not good enough. I think this is a common mindset that a lot of people struggle with, but it's essential to let go of it because it doesn't serve us in any way.

2. That I owe people a certain level of perfection. I've found that perfectionism can be a huge roadblock when it comes to creative expression, and this is something that needs to be unlearned.

3. That the world owes me anything. The truth is that the world doesn't owe us anything, and it's up to us to create our own happiness.

 

Leo Maverick (ISTP)

1. Perfectionism - I often take an all-or-nothing approach, striving for perfection in everything I do.

2. Fear of failure - I often doubt myself and worry about failing, instead of focusing on my strengths and capabilities.

3. Negative self talk - I often talk myself down and belittle myself, instead of celebrating my accomplishments and being kind to myself.

 

Minki Jo (ISTJ)

1. Resenting others for being extroverted and sociable.

2. Overthinking everything and getting stressed over the smallest details.

3. Being overly judgmental and nitpicky about everything.

 

Misty Powell (INFP)

 

1. "No one understands me."

2. "People are always judging me."

3. "Life is just too hard, and I can't handle it."

 

Nicholas Calliope (INFJ)

Let go of the mindsets of doubt, entitlement and pride.

1. Doubt is a poison that seeps into the heart and erodes self-confidence.

2.  Entitlement is a disease that leads to a distorted sense of self-worth.

3. Pride is a prison that confines the mind and holds it back from its full potential. All of these mindsets are barriers to success and happiness.

 

Raquel Dozier (ESFP)

1. I need to let go of the mindset that I'm not enough or not as good as everyone else.

2. I need to let go of the mindset that my mistakes are indicative of who I am as a person or my self-worth.

3. I need to let go of the mindset that I have to keep trying to fit in with people who aren't compatible with me.

 

Ruel Katou (ENTP)

1. Letting the opinions of others dictate my life and decisions.

2. Being stuck in my comfort zone.

3. Constantly seeking validation from others.

 

Ryana Suzumi (ISFJ)

1. Self-doubt - believing that I can't accomplish something and letting that hold me back from even trying.

2. Impatience - wanting immediate results without being willing to put in the work or wait for the fruits of my labor.

3. Self-pity - spending too much time moping about and feeling sorry for myself instead of focusing on solutions or positive reframing.

 

Tobias Ronan (INTJ)

1. First of all, I need to let go of my cynicism and bitterness.

2. I also need to get rid of my perfectionism and my self-doubts.

3. And last but not least, I need to let go of my habit of always thinking ahead, trying to predict what could happen tomorrow instead of enjoying today.

 

Vivia Xanthe (ENTJ)

Let go of negative mindsets? Listen, I'm not in the business of "letting go" of anything. Negative mindsets are what keep you sharp—what keep you alert. As my old man used to say, "You think the world's gonna spare you just because you let go of negative mindsets? Life will throw anything and everything at you, so you better be ready for the worst."

(after some bargaining...)

1. I need to let go of my need to be in control of everything.

2. I need to let go of my short-temper.

3. And... I need to let go of my habit of jumping to conclusions too quickly.